Welcome to Ben’s Friends Mila!
It is definately hard for both you and your daughter to have Chiari, but the silver lining is that it has probably brought you closer and gives you someone to relate to. Sometimes the hardest of experiences can bring people together.
Now, you can get involved in this community with many more people that you can talk to about your experiences with Chiari. If you like this community, you should encourage your daughter to join (if she would like to).
Get involved in the discussion, ask questions and feel free to comment on threads!
Once again, welcome Mila!